why both of them always argue with each other??
everyone around them also don't know what's the point they are 'fighting' for... suddenly will argued among themselves, maybe just because of a piece of graph paper..
let's call them Xixi and Xuxu... which according to the monthly magazine of PMB.. when they pair up - also known as Lews (Xixi + Xuxu = Lews = 尿屎一族)
both are stubborn, dont like to listen and accept each others opinion - especially in academic... but don't know it's the fate or what, they also paired up as a group in lab, assignment and presentation
For example,
through my observation and some tips from the guy which same group with them in the lab,
when Xi get a reading from an experiment, Xu will doubt about it... like don't trust his ability..
both also like to order each other to do something, but both also don't want to do...
Xu will always compared those experiment reading with other group, when there's a different the first thing he say will be other's answer are wrong (sometimes his correct but sometimes he's wrong too) just hope that he double check the answer before telling people about it..
in a 3 person group, the middle one always in dilemma.. let's say Xi have his own idea, Xu also have his own idea - then they will ask the middle guy which decision will he follow... it's like if agree with A, B will bu shuang ; if agree with B, A will bu shuang...
there's some other example that can't be explained.. you need to see by yourself, then maybe you will understand what i'm trying to say..
4 comments:
有时候做人就是要简单,不管别人怎样想,做好自己就好。朋友之间的争吵,能免就免,不能免就以另一个角度看待它,尽量往好的方面想。或许,你可以把他们的争吵置之不理,就当作他们是在联络感情吧。或许那中间人的感觉很难受,可是你能怎样?这是他们的性格,你应该听过江山易改本性难移吧?除了尝试接受,我们不能做什么。再不然就沉默,在适当的时候沉默也未免不是件好事。。。不过,有时候如果你觉得自己的建议是不错的话,可以试着将它提出来,或许他们也会考虑你的建议。
sorry,i'm not in ur position,i'll never noe how is the feeling,what i can say is just try to accept it..
don be sad coz of them...
be happy ya...
Maybe you are right...... i m always stubborn with my ideas. I hate ppl against my idea without any reasons. If someone want to ban my ideas pls come with a solution. Pls just give me a solution when i m facing a problem... pls do not keep telling me who is wrong or who is right bcoz i m oledi so fan. What i need is just a solution but not only how to mai yuan. If somebody does so sure i will quarrel with him/her. Obviously, i m eazy to get angry if my plan is disturbed by somebody. Of course i will accept other's opinions if u can convince me. So far not much ppl can do so. You can say i m devil if i am angry. You oso can say i m a angel if i m happy...... So far frustration oledi takes me. Negative minded = me. I have two extreme identities... between good and bad. I have a very big nerve when i m happy (Happy good lucky). I love a song named " I am who I am". I always in conflict between devil and angel. So if i make ppl angry. I have to say sorry bcoz i oledi out of control. Sorry to you guys... I try to make a change but also fail... Sorry
I m Xixi
laf,u think too much ad lar...no any devil or anger in u..when u angry or happy,u still wu shian hui..everybody have their own emotion de ma..this is life,this is u..n all the DDPian love u ^.^
哎哟,原来是xixi写的,我刚才写的那封是错的,那封应该是写给xixi的,真是糊涂。
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